True change has very little in common with the flick of a light switch (or winning an election). Yes, the light goes on, but it goes off just as easily – there is no stickiness or real shift. It’s just on, off, on, off. True change is much more like a journey. When you know the phases of change, you can bring awareness to where you’re currently stuck and make conscious choices to continue to move forward.
make the leap
Talk to almost anyone about change, and it immediately brings up feelings of stress. We like to get comfortable in our routines. Yes, we stretch, we grow, but at a pace that feels, well, convenient because we’re in control. Thriving when we’re out of control is a much tougher prospect; it takes us out of our sweet spot on our way to discover what we hope will be a new cozy place.
I made a big mistake. I knew it when it happened, but unfortunately, I have photographic evidence. I cut my hair.